Yesterday was a very hard day. A day I never thought my family or I would ever have to be face. My Grandad passed away. It was a huge shock to everyone as none of expected it to happen. We all knew he had ongoing health issues for quite some time, but I think that we all just thought he was invincible and could get through anything. Death of a loved one is something you think you'll never have to go through or face up to, when really, any day could be someone's last and we wouldn't be any wiser.
My Grandad was a very protective and strong-willed family man, who always held his own. He loved decorating, fishing, building new things, especially his garden. If he wasn't doing that, he'd be waving his finger around and dishing out orders from behind his paper. He was always making us laugh with his witty jokes and wicked sense of humour, that's something you could never put a price on.
His health took a turn many years ago now. We all thought on many occasions that was going to be it, but he pulled through and just carried on. It wasn't always going to be the same, as he'd have to give up most of his main passions, which must have been so frustrating for him. The main thing was he was still around. This was a man who could never admit defeat.
Most importantly, he was a well loved Husband, Father and Grandfather. One that will be truly missed and hold a very special place in our hearts.
Please, if you don't already, I urge you all to just take some time out of your week - no matter how busy you are, just to spend time with family and let them know how much they are loved. It may seem like nothing now, but don't ever assume someone will live forever because you never know when they'll be taken away.
Live each day like it's your last, eat that cake if you want it and let yourself be happy. Do what you love and make memories that will last a lifetime. Most importantly, just take some time out of your day to show someone that you care. If you love someone, tell them and never let go.
Rest in perfect peace, Grandad. You'll never be forgotten <3
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Whilst I was reading this it literally felt as though I'd written it myself about my own grandad. He passed away almost two years ago and it's still really hard to think about but it does get easier. You're so right, it's the most important thing to take time out and spend it with your loved ones. Thinking of you and sending lots of love to you and your family xxx
ReplyDeleteAww I'm so sorry to hear that too. I don't think you ever get over losing a loved one. Thank you so much for your lovely words though. It really means a lot <3 xxxxx
DeleteEverything you said about your Grandad sounded exactly like mine! Sending all my (and Daisy's) love, you know where we are if you need anything <3 xxx
ReplyDeleteThank you, that means a lot <3 It sucks but it's nice to remember the good times xxxxxx
DeleteI'm so sorry to hear about your Granded Tania, I hope you're okay. I moved away from my hometown last summer and I don't speak to my family as much as I should, when I finish work I'm going to give them a call to make sure they know I love them because as you said you never know what is around the corner. My thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time xxx
ReplyDeleteThank you Charlotte, that's really lovely of you to say! We're bearing up, it's just hard. I know what you mean, it is really hard balancing your own life and family - but I've come to realise how important it is! I'm sure they will appreciate the call and I hope you get to see them soon! xxxx
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